Sunday, February 27, 2011

Some good advice

The other night on the way home youth group I was talking to my friend's mum (she picks us up) and was complaining about my bad week and how I thought I would never get a boyfriend etc. That night she gave me the best advice, I have gotten in a while, it was:
Pray to God about your future husband and ask him to make you the right girl for the right guy. (or something along those lines)
This has made me put things in perspective and has made me feel a whole lot better about my self in general :)
She also said that she didn't have a boyfriend (now husband) till she was 26 and the timing was right for her. This has helped me so much :)
Her son and I are really good friends, we both love Glee and have similar interests. We love going out for sushi and enjoy each others company but at the end of the day we are just friends, which is good. My mum has always told me have good guy friends and to treat them like brothers which is also good advice.
At the end of the day I know there is someone out there for me and that God has everything in control :)

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Consquences

When we're younger we learn that doing the wrong thing equals consquences when we're older we learn that doing the wrong this doesn't just have consquences but often doing the wrong thing can affect alot of people. Its strange with the fact than when we're older often things we do, hurt people when we don't mean them to! Which lead to consquences, which don't just affect us but other people too. I have done things that have hurt people when I didn't mean to and every time I have been very sorry, as we realise the affect it has on alot of people. Often though even after the apology things don't go back to the way they were which is another consquence! Its hard as more times than not you will wish you hadn't done what you had did and that you could turn back the clock, which can't happen :(. I speak from experience and I am sure everyone will realise what I am saying. I know everyone would be alot happier if life had an 'undo button' or 'go back in time button'. But this isn't the case, but we can sorry and hope for the best.

So I am apologising to anyone I may have hurt recently and I hope things can go back the way they were :)

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

A bad week!

This past week hasn't been good and its not likely to get better. It all started on sunday when the hard drive decided to break! Throw in some boy troubles and a few dizzy spells and there you have it! The worst week I have had. I honestly wish I could travel back in time and re do these past few days. So I can only hope these next few days are better. Sorry if this blog post is so short but I can't think of anything else to write!
I hope your week has been better than mine!

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

a list

A while ago I was bored so I wrote a list of '10 things I want in a guy' on my ipod. I really don't know why, but it has helped me get myself together on the whole boy issue. Now when ever I see a guy, I might be interested in I go through the list and if they don't meet the first requirment (has to be a christian) I move on. In a strange way It has helped me. I won't post the list on here as it is private and special to me. But I recomend all girls do a list and look back at it time to time!

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Chalk and Cheese

Me and my youngest sister, couldn't be more different- she's the neat freak, I'm the messy one. I love Glee, she hates it. I cry in films, she shows no emotion. I'm a bookworm, she struggles to read. I'm blond haired, she's read haired. I love my hair short, she loves hers long. You the get the picture she's chalk, I'm cheese we don't mix! I guess the only thing we have in common is that we are sisters. This means alot of fights between us, when we were younger we shared a room and every morning we woke our parents up with our fighting (we now have our own rooms.). It's hard to believe that we are related at times! We also look different, lots of people can't believe we are related at first!
It also means we have different outlooks on life. I stand up for what I believe in, but she stays in the shadows. I could go on about how different we are!
But at the end of the day I love her, though at times she drive me mad!

Friday, February 11, 2011

Smile More :)

Smile more- two words that can make a difference. It has been recorded that after a man jumped off the bridge they found a note 'if anyone smiles at me on my way to the bridge, I won't jump' no one did though so he jumped and killed himself. Its hard breaking, that a thing like this could cause people follow through with their plans to commit sucide. I try to smile as much as I can, though there are times when I feel awful and don't feel smiling, but the truth is smile can make someones day. Though we have days when we feel depressed, a person smiling at us can turn our day around. I remember that there have been days when I have felt horrible and just one person smiling at me has made me feel so much better :) so please smile more :)

Some sites to make you smile:)
GMH (gives me hope)- I love this site and you'll see why, if anyone can read this site without smiling once, you have no heart.
LGMH(love gives me hope)- like GMH but with love stories, these stories are amazing and it makes me feel good inside to know the world still have love.

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Reasons why I am not taking a date to the ball!

I am sick of people asking me why am not taking a date to the ball! I mean its annoying, so here are the reasons why I'm not taking a date to the ball!
  • Its another thing to worry about! I already have enough stuff to worry about- shoes,bag,dress, hair the list goes on!
  • I don't want to take a date for the sake of it, just because everyone else is doing it why should I?
  • I feel it is wrong just to ask a guy friend to go the ball for the sake of it and then have to be 'stuck' with him (said in the nicest possible way) and not be able to enjoy the ball fully. It would also be hard for him as the chances are he would know no one.
  • I should be able to feel confident enought and beautiful without a guy!
These are my main reasons, I mean yes I would take a date to the ball if I was in a long term relationship with a guy which I'm not (yet, though stuff happens!). I also know a few girls (and guys) who aren't taking dates and they feel like me, whats the point.

Saturday, February 5, 2011

10 things you don't know about me

I don't think I have done this and considering I have some spare time I thought I would give it go :)

10 things you don't know about me!
  1. I have all the Glee albums on my ipod.
  2. I am at good with computers and like playing around on different computer programs when I am bored.
  3. I hate doing swimming for school and avoid it when I can. The same goes for sport at school too.
  4. I love the colours pink and green.
  5. I rarely wear eye or face make up, but I wear lip gloss alot.
  6. I want to get married young.
  7. I am in my final year of school.
  8. My favourite movie is  A Walk to Remember.
  9. I cook dinner once a week.
  10. I once almost cried in an episode of Glee

Mail

I love receiving mail, I find it is great unexpected suprise. So my new years resolution is to send a birthday card to one of my friends whose birthday it is that month. Its not really expensive (cards cost around a dollar at the discount store and stamps are 60 cents) and I am sure they will love receiving the cards. I mean yes e-mails and facebook are convenient at times but receiving mail is fun and I love writing letters. This month I have a few people to choose from, so I will just have to see :)